Sep 08, 2014 Watch The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter--And How to Make the Most of Them Now Meg Jay PDF. The Defining Decade Why Your Twenties Matter-And How to Make the Most of Them Now by Meg Jay.

Garmin G Tunes Installer Youtube. Society has convinced us that it's perfectly normal for 20-somethings to, live in, struggle to pay rent, and date all the wrong people — all the while having the time of their lives. But psychologist says millennials have taken it too far, that this decade is not a time for indulgent self-exploration. In her book,, Jay says that if you follow everyone else's advice about 'finding yourself,' you'll waste your 20s and be a wreck by your 30s.

We've compiled some of Jay's compelling reasons for why society's portrayal of this period of this decade is all wrong, and why young people should capitalize on their 20s.